1: You will NEVER please everyone. There is ALWAYS someone who thinks you are Too Fat, too skinny, loud too quiet, eat too much, don't eat enough, etc you get the point? So do what makes you happy.
2: You are NOT responsible for someone else's happiness, nor are they are responsible for yours.
3: Gratefulness goes a LONG way. If you are thankful for the small things. Life is a serious of good moments and unfortunately a lot of sad moments as well.
4: Most things are not as bad as you THINK they are. That means get out of your own head, step back look at the big picture.
5: You cannot make someone love you and you should not have to. If they don't love you like you feel you deserve move on. They may come back they may not. In the end, you will be better for it.
6: Nobody's grass is greener, it just looks that way. Some people fertilize with bs, some water and put forth the work. Relationships are hard and take both parties to make it work
7: not everyone will like you and that's OKAY they don't need to. Be okay with just letting it go it is their loss.
8: Everyone experiences things different. Just because they have the same job, disease, amount of children, whatever it may be .. you can do things differently . No two journeys are the same
9: You don't have to do things a certain way if you come to the same outcome. Remember 1 + 3 = 4 but so is 2 + 2 and 0 + 4 . So you don't have to take the same path or steps to get to the same place.
10: The only way you are defeated is if you give up. You can do anything. Be gentle on yourself.Don't forget to follow alwaysblabbing